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It's been said that you can tell a lot about a community by observing how they treat the elderly, children and their cemeteries.

On the northern boundary of Sleepy Hollow Apartments, adjacent to athletic fields of Monticello High School, there sits a small, abandoned cemetery. Located inside a dilapidated split rail fence are several graves, with at least two visible tombstones. One marks the final resting place of Daniel Litts. The stone has been knocked over and lies flat on the ground, its lettering is barely legible. Next to it is an unmarked block which may memorialize Danie's wife Metje (Martha), who reportedly died on November 4, 1859 in Forestburgh. Metje was christened 7 April 1776 in Shawangunk, Ulster County, making her 82 years old at the time of her death.

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Photos of the public ceremony in which Sullivan County Court Judge Burton Ledina was sworn into office for another term may be found here, along with a link to order reprints for personal or non-profit use. The ceremony was held on December 31, 2007 at the Lawrence H. Cooke Court House in Monticello, New York, with Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kane presiding. In the photo below, Sullivan County Bar Association president is shown presenting Judge Ledina with a new set of judicial robes following the administration of his oath. Another photo taken with Judge Ledina, this one taken on Election Night last month, is here. If you were present that night and would like a link to a password-protected album, let me know.

This self-described "magazet" Friendly Chat, dated August 1934, was "published by Philip L. Kretz, Foot of Broadway, Newburgh, N.Y., to share with others thoughts that will promote mutual friendliness and right professional relations." A display advertises optometrist services provided by Dr. Kretz of Newburgh and Highland Falls. It is unclear if he authored the newsletter, or applied his brand to stock content which may have also been published by other businesses. Authorship is unattributed; no copyright asserted.

The title may allude indirectly to fireside chats by President Franklin Roosevelt in the same era. The home of Franklin and Eleanor Roosevelt in Hyde Park is a half hour's drive from Newburgh, of which FDR is quoted, "All that is within me cries out to go back to my home on the Hudson River."

Contents include poems and moral stories titled: The Weed, Rumors, The Lawn-Mower Society, Who Painted The House?, Grouchy Eyes, A Perfect Match, The Legend of the Happy Man, No Overtime, and Our Enemies.

Apolitical and commercial in its aim, the look and feel of Friendly Chat seem styled after The Philistine: A Periodical of Protest, published a generation before by the famous Utopian socialist turned rugged individualist Elbert Hubbard of Roycrofters fame, who employed the craft of writing in the western town of East Aurora, near Buffalo, and went down on the Lusitania in 1912, an early casualty of the First World War.

At this point, I'm not able to google anything about Friendly Chat magazet or the good Dr. Kretz of Dutchess County. Perhaps, seeing this, a descendant or local historian will fill me in.

The above document reached me through channels that I don't recall, from my grandfather, Arthur H. Rue, who owned a bookstore in Detroit at the time it was published (quite a ways from Newburgh). No idea how it reached him, I presume he retained it, at least in part, because it is dated the month that my father, Bud, his second son, was born. I also have an copy somewhere around here dated December 1938, though the significance of that date (if there was any) is unclear to me.

By Chuck Potter
Published on September 5, 2007
in The New London Day

East Lyme — The man who took Mohegan Community College from a concept in a basement office in Norwich to a cluster of classrooms in yet another basement — this one, part of a former high school — and onward to what is now the expanding campus of Three Rivers Community College, died Monday.

Dr. Robert Rue, 71, of Niantic, died following what seemed to be successful heart surgery over the weekend, his wife said. His wife, Connie, six children and seven grandchildren survive him.

Rue, 71, of Niantic, was founding president and president emeritus of Mohegan Community College, was also president emeritus of C.S. Mott Community College in Flint, Mich., and served as president of Spoon River College in Canton Ill., Gordon Military College in Barnesville, Ga., and the founding dean of the Urban College of Boston.

Rue taught social sciences and humanities at those institutions as well as at the University of New Haven and the University of Connecticut, where he coordinated the Center for Academic Programs at the Avery Point campus in Groton.

“Of course I didn't know him as well as some others might, but Bob was man of vision,” said Three Rivers president Dr. Grace Sawyer Jones. “He did and extraordinary job here. This is a very special community college. I say that not as president, but from my experiences across the nation. Bob Rue appointed an excellent staff, and together they got the college off on solid footing.”

Prof. Emeritus Dr. James Coleman was a member of the English Department at Olivet (Mich.) College when he met Rue, then the director of community education. Coleman said he admired Rue for his commitment to community education and for the democracy he fostered among a college community.

Coleman joined Rue in Norwich in 1973 when the community college moved from the Bartlett building on Broad Street in New London to the former Notre Dame High School in Norwich, its current site. Coleman said Rue instituted a unicameral senate in which students and faculty worked together to decide the governance of the college.

“He had the ability to bring in people who didn't see themselves as college students,” Coleman said. “I admired that. It made the job very interesting. I was fortunate to work with him for a number of years.

Coleman reflected on Rue's compassion for people and his belief that everyone could and should get a college education. He said Rue grew up in Detroit, living at the back of a bookstore his parents owned. He said Rue's dad, who worked in the Ford factory, was deaf, and that perhaps those early struggles contributed to Rue's love of people and strong desire to work with the underprivileged.

Connie Rue recalled her late husband's joyful way of life, counting his many endeavors, from playing Santa Claus to acting in movies, (“Meet Joe Black” among others) and commercials.

She said she and Rue met in 1987 in Illinois, were married a year later and came back to Connecticut six months after so Rue could be close to his four children. They opened the Little Professor Book Center, a bookstore in downtown Niantic.

“Everyone thought he gave it that name, but really it was a franchise from Ann Arbor,” she said.

Together the couple had six children: Lisa Rue, Melinda Rue Bates, Randy Rue, Christa Rue Mingo, George Rue and Julie Rue Browne. Robert Rue, also a justice of the peace, had officiated at his daughter Julie Rue Browne's wedding in Windham Aug. 11.

Connie Rue called her husband the strongest civil rights advocate she ever knew. She laughed as she recalled her first trip east, a whirlwind weekend in New York. Their first morning in the city they awoke to a parade outside their hotel. It was Jesse Jackson and the Rainbow Coalition marching, she said.

“We jumped right in and marched right along with them,” she said.

“I was just getting to know this man. That was a strong emotional time in my life. He was a wonderful man, and a wonderful husband.”

Rue's life is well documented on his Web site www.drbobrue.com.